{"id":78,"date":"2009-10-22T11:04:00","date_gmt":"2009-10-22T11:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2009\/10\/got-a-fever-burning-inside-of-not-me.html"},"modified":"2009-10-22T11:04:00","modified_gmt":"2009-10-22T11:04:00","slug":"got-a-fever-burning-inside-of-not-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2009\/10\/got-a-fever-burning-inside-of-not-me.html","title":{"rendered":"Got a Fever Burning Inside of (Not) Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been getting grief from my father (hi, Peter!) for not blogging. I&#8217;m not completely sure why I&#8217;m not blogging, but I haven&#8217;t. Part of it is that I <i>am<\/i> writing, just not for you. I&#8217;ve been working steadily away on my novel. I&#8217;m at a rough place in it at the moment, not sure if it&#8217;s all gelling together. I need to just plug away at it. Part of it is also that I&#8217;ve lost that snark factor. Now that I have kids, I feel like I can&#8217;t let my bitch out. It&#8217;s one thing to alienate my friends; it&#8217;s something else to alienate my kids&#8217; friends. But I go through this blogging crisis about once a year and the fact is that it&#8217;s been eight years I&#8217;ve been doing this, which is longer than I&#8217;ve done almost anything else in my life. The only thing more consistent in my life is Adam, as I&#8217;ve been with him for almost ten years. But I&#8217;ve never lived in a single place for eight years. I&#8217;ve never had a job for eight years. Eight years is something to be reckoned with, so here I am.<\/p>\n<p>And right now is my writing time. I should be working on my novel. But my darling daughter pulled the old &#8220;I&#8217;m healthy but now you can&#8217;t send me to school&#8221; trick. Last night the boy was trying to get out of homework. Pie had just gotten home from a playdate and was cranky, but nothing out of the ordinary. But the boy! Oh the moaning, the groaning. &#8220;I can&#8217;t do my homework! My head hurts! I&#8217;m sick!&#8221; I feel his forehead.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re fine,&#8221; I tell him.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nooooo! I&#8217;m sick! Take my temperature.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Which I dutifully do. And he&#8217;s a lovely 98.4. Pie is standing there. &#8220;Shall we take your temperature, too, while I&#8217;m standing here?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She agrees and I take her temperature. 102.5. I do a double take and take her and his temperature three more times, certain something is wrong with the thermometer. But no, she&#8217;s sick. Just doesn&#8217;t seem like it other than a cold.<\/p>\n<p>So now I&#8217;m sitting on the couch as she overdoses on TV. We started with <i>High School Musical<\/i>: &#8220;The girl with the lipstick and the sparkly shirt, who&#8217;s hanging with the boy? That&#8217;s who I am. What&#8217;s her name? Gabriella? That&#8217;s who I am. I the character of her and the person of her [meaning Vanessa Hudgens].&#8221; Now we&#8217;re on to Berenstain Bears. She&#8217;s anxious to go out&#8211;because of course she&#8217;s had no fever all morning&#8211;but I can&#8217;t in these panic-y swine flu times take her anywhere where there might be children, so she&#8217;s won the TV lottery for today. Given Pie&#8217;s Law of Health, she&#8217;ll be chipper and happy all day, till about 5 p.m. when her fever is guaranteed to return.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, I can leave you with just a few of the things that have been keeping me away from the blog:<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center; font-weight: bold;\">Sukkah<\/div>\n<p>For the first time, we built a sukkah. We have our lovely remodeled house, with an ample backyard and a place to store the sukkah in the off-season. So it was time. &#8220;What size should we get?&#8221; Adam asked me.<\/p>\n<p>I looked over the <a href=\"http:\/\/sukkot.com\/\">Sukkah Project web site<\/a>. &#8220;I think we should get the easy snap together kind.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s ridiculous,&#8221; I was told. &#8220;It has to be made with lumber. Or else you&#8217;re just cheating. What size?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Um, 8 by 12 should be fine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No, too small.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Okay, 12 by 10.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So what does he order? 12 by 16. We need a bigger table to fill it, but it was nice as we hosted Shabbat and two kid-oriented meals in the sukkah. I&#8217;d show you pictures of Adam and Doodles building the sukkah, but somehow I&#8217;ve misplaced all my September photos.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/285167338703-790564.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[78]\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/285167338703-790161.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/450287338703-728607.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[78]\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/450287338703-728238.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">Cub Scouts<\/span><br \/>Let me say off the bat that I have very mixed feelings about the Cub Scouts. I despise many of their policies and I&#8217;m not crazy about some of the skills they teach. However, Doodles was so excited to do this. A troop advertised outside of his school and he was dying to join. I nixed it, as it was not the most sensitive to Jewish scouts. The first meeting, for example, was on Rosh Hashanah. Monthly meetings are on Friday nights. Doesn&#8217;t work for us and easy to say no. But then we discovered a troop (although that&#8217;s the former Girl Scout in me talking; Cub Scouts are not troops, but packs) on the other side of town that was not only Jew-friendly, but populated by many kids from our synagogue. The boy is so excited. He&#8217;s working his way through his Tiger book and is just about ready to earn his Bobcat badge. He needs to sell popcorn to raise money, and I&#8217;m not the selling type. But he&#8217;s begging to go door-to-door to sell. We compromised as I found a friend or two willing to buy and he suited up to go to their houses. If anyone reading this would like to buy popcorn, you know where to find me.<\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\" class=\"mobile-photo\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/photo-714832-714881.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[78]\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/photo-714832-714876.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center; font-weight: bold;\">Apple Picking<\/div>\n<p>The rain finally took a long enough break to get to apple picking. We went nice and early on Columbus Day to beat the crowd. We arrive, and I go to buy the small bag to fill. &#8220;We&#8217;ll fill that in no time. We need a bigger bag,&#8221; Adam insists (are you seeing a theme here?). So we get the bigger bag. Only Pie loses interests and she and Adam wonder off leaving me to haul around a honking big heavy bag of apples that I <i>still<\/i> haven&#8217;t used up.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/241708338703-790916.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[78]\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/241708338703-790553.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><br \/><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/551708338703-761078.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[78]\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 214px;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/551708338703-760727.jpg\" alt=\"\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center; font-weight: bold;\">Hockey<\/div>\n<p>Recognize that player in the blue fleece? I got so confused when I saw her out there, given that last year, that was the boy&#8217;s fleece, so I kept thinking I was looking at him. But that girl really held her own and did just great. The boy is amazing, how much he&#8217;s improved since last year. Poor Adam: Doodles made the advanced beginner&#8217;s group, which meets from 8:50 to 9:30 and Pie is in the beginner&#8217;s group, which meets from 9:50 to 10:30, so he gets to spend his entire morning at the rink, while I&#8217;m off running. That&#8217;s what you get for saying, &#8220;Oh, hockey  and the early, cold hours at the rink don&#8217;t bother me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And now, now it&#8217;s time to be a Mom again. To change the channel and make princess soup for Pie and to bake my next apple creation:  Spiced Caramel Apple Upside Down Cake. Perhaps I&#8217;ll try to sneak in a bit of noveling today. You never now. <\/p>\n<p>So, yes, I&#8217;m still here. 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