{"id":493,"date":"2006-12-06T01:47:00","date_gmt":"2006-12-06T01:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2006\/12\/doin-his-thang.html"},"modified":"2006-12-06T01:47:00","modified_gmt":"2006-12-06T01:47:00","slug":"doin-his-thang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2006\/12\/doin-his-thang.html","title":{"rendered":"Doin&#8217; His Thang"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It snowed! True, it didn&#8217;t stick for very long, but actual snowflakes came down from the heavens, leading my darling son to proclaim, &#8220;Where are my snow boots?&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Right here!&#8221; I called out, as I retrieved them from the closet. His lovely blue size 5 snow boots that aren&#8217;t, in any stretch of the imagination, going to fit his adorable size 7 feet. &#8220;Um, we&#8217;ll get you new boots later!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So yesterday, during a trip to Borders (after a failed trip to Barnes and Noble last weekend where they didn&#8217;t have what I wanted but it didn&#8217;t stop Doodles from proclaiming to his father, &#8220;We went to the bookstore to buy you a book for your birthday!&#8221; Way to be discreet, kid!), we popped into L.L. Bean right next door. &#8220;Let&#8217;s get you snow boots!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You all know where this is going, right? Remember that <a href=\".\/.\/2006\/08\/boy-talk.html\">obnoxious kid who accused my darling, sensitive son of being a girl<\/a>? I want to protect my son from kids like this. I really do. But I also want to support him in everything that he does, want him to be able to express himself and make him confident in his choices and his likes.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/80s jenny-764424.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[493]\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/uploaded_images\/80s jenny-763147.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Give me a break! It was the '80s!\" \/><\/a>When I was eighteen&#8211;<i>eighteen<\/i>, for God&#8217;s sakes!!!&#8211;pink was my favorite color. I loved pink. I wore pink skirts, pink hats (yes, pink hats! Remember, I&#8217;m old. It was the &#8217;80s), had a pink comforter, pink sheets. Hey, I had matching pink shirts and socks that I wore with my ripped Levi&#8217;s when I was a cool film student (work with me on the cool, okay?). <\/p>\n<p>So what&#8217;s wrong with my three year old loving pink? Except that it makes me want to beat up all those punk hooligans who dare to mock him.<\/p>\n<p>In L.L. Bean, he went straight for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.llbean.com\/webapp\/wcs\/stores\/servlet\/CategoryDisplay?page=snow-tread-boots&amp;categoryId=47682&amp;storeId=1&amp;catalogId=1&amp;langId=-1&amp;parentCategory=4214&amp;cat4=2088&amp;shop_method=pp&amp;feat=4214-tn\">those pretty pink boots<\/a> (and they don&#8217;t even have the lovely pink color on the site&#8211;actually, it&#8217;s called rose blossom, but pink will suffice). And can I blame him? I admit it, I still love pink. It&#8217;s not my favorite&#8211;that would be green for anyone who cares&#8211;but it&#8217;s right up there. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Those are the ones you want?&#8221; I asked<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yep!&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Do you like any of the others?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I like these.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Fine with me!&#8221; I said cheerfully. The salesman&#8211;a relatively young guy&#8211;brings out the right size. &#8220;Hop up in that seat and try them on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Doodles climbs up. An older man is trying on boots. He&#8217;s joking around with Doodles and when the boots come out, he says, &#8220;That&#8217;s a girl color! Why are you wearing a girl color?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I scoff, &#8220;There&#8217;s no such thing as a girl color.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Doodles happily echoes me. &#8220;There&#8217;s no such thing as a girl color.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The older man turns to the salesman, &#8220;That&#8217;s a girl color!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The salesman, bless his heart, said, &#8220;All colors for all people.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I had Doodles walk around the store with the boots. Hard to tell if boots fit because they&#8217;re a little stiff, so Doodles is wandering around the store like a little Frankenstein. When we&#8217;ve made a circuit, I ask another salesperson who is standing around, &#8220;Do these fit him? He&#8217;s walking funny.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He bends down and tries to find Doodles&#8217;s toes. &#8220;They&#8217;re a little big but he won&#8217;t be tripping on them or falling down or anything.&#8221; He pauses, looks at the shoes, looks at Doodles, and then asks, &#8220;Didn&#8217;t they have any of the other colors in back?&#8221; Sigh.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;These are the ones he wants.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So, I buy Doodles his shoes. I am embarrassed to admit I asked him one final time if he wanted to look at other colors, but he remained steadfast in his choice. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve <i>got<\/i> to get to the gym more. I have a hunch I&#8217;m going to be beating up a few kids this winter.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It snowed! True, it didn&#8217;t stick for very long, but actual snowflakes came down from the heavens, leading my darling son to proclaim, &#8220;Where are my snow boots?&#8221; &#8220;Right here!&#8221; I called out, as I retrieved them from the closet. 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