{"id":2270,"date":"2013-04-08T15:44:19","date_gmt":"2013-04-08T19:44:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/?p=2270"},"modified":"2013-04-08T15:44:19","modified_gmt":"2013-04-08T19:44:19","slug":"a-day-of-rememberance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2013\/04\/a-day-of-rememberance.html","title":{"rendered":"A Day of Rememberance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>People who know me outside of this blog know that I&#8217;m obsessed&#8211;and obsessed is an understatement here&#8211;with genealogy. I&#8217;ve let it take over a huge portion of my life, as I&#8217;m able to chalk it up to &#8220;research.&#8221; As someone who is interested in writing about different periods of time, I&#8217;m using what I find as the basis for writing. All it takes is one small detail, one tidbit and my mind is reeling and I wonder, &#8220;What&#8217;s the story behind that?&#8221; Since I&#8217;ll never know the real stories, I simply make up my own. Or, even if I do know the story, I&#8217;ll make up what I think is a better story. <\/p>\n<p>When I began this endeavor, all I had was a general outline of a family tree my grandfather had started many years ago, in the days before the Internet and Skype and digital photography.  Now, I use <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ancestry.com\/\">Ancestry.com<\/a> to make my tree and I&#8217;m able to share it with family members who add information or as a way to connect with relatives I didn&#8217;t even know I had. Thanks to technology, I&#8217;ve been able to fill in many gaps, find pictures, gravestones, records, people.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things that always disturbed me, on that original family tree, were all the places where the line ended abruptly. A single name, nothing more, and the notation, &#8220;D 1941.&#8221;<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Tree.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[2270]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Tree-216x300.jpg\" alt=\"Tree\" width=\"216\" height=\"300\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2271\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Tree-216x300.jpg 216w, https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/Tree-740x1024.jpg 740w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 216px) 100vw, 216px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My great-grandfather and my great-grandmother&#8211;on the sheet they are the ones who made it out, Abe and Yetta&#8211;were from the same town in Latvia, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/latvia\/varaklani.html\">Varaklani<\/a> (spelled oh-so-many ways, but that is the current spelling). In 1897, Jews made up 75% of the population in the town. Today, as I understand it, there is a single Jewish family still living there. On my great-grandmother&#8217;s side, there were as many &#8220;dead ends&#8221; on the family tree. Yad Vashem, the Holocaust memorial in Israel, keeps a record of all who have perished. Survivors post Pages of Testimony of those who were killed. Page after page of my Varaklani relatives reads a variation of the same: &#8220;1941 Shot by Germans.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/David-Daragoi.jpg\" rel=\"lightbox[2270]\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/David-Daragoi-212x300.jpg\" alt=\"David Daragoi\" width=\"212\" height=\"300\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2272\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/David-Daragoi-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/04\/David-Daragoi.jpg 620w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 212px) 100vw, 212px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Today is <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Yom_HaShoah\">Yom HaShoah<\/a>&#8211;Holocaust Remembrance Day. The day that Jewish people recall the lives of those who were lost. Now that I know so many of the names, now that I see how much of my family died, I feel a need to speak their names, to let the world know that they are remembered. My family, at least the ones I know about:<\/p>\n<p>Killed in Varaklani:<br \/>\nMy great-great grandfather, Youssel Tania Kapelovich, 1848-1941<br \/>\nMy great-great grandmother, Tania Raiza Kapelovich, ?-1941<br \/>\nLazer Kapelovich, 1889-1941<br \/>\nLea-Mara Kapelovich, 1882-1941<br \/>\nMana Kapelovich, 1920-1942 (in Leningrad)<br \/>\nPeretz Kapelovich 1922-1941<br \/>\nRachel Kapelovich, 1924-1941<br \/>\nMoshe Kapelovich, 1926-1941<br \/>\nLea Racha Kapelovich, 1930-1941<br \/>\nRiva Kapelovich, 1886-1941<br \/>\nPesse Kapelovich Gudman, 1881-1941<br \/>\nMicha Shana Kapelovich Dimant, ?-1941<br \/>\nDavid Dimant, ?-1941<br \/>\nItzick Dimant, ?-1941<br \/>\nPeretz Dimant, ?-1941<br \/>\nTirza Dimant, ?-1941<br \/>\nSara Dimant, 1877-1941<br \/>\nReuven Kapelovich, 1896-1941<br \/>\nRiva Kapelovich, ?-1941<br \/>\nLabe Kopelovitz, ?-1941<br \/>\nMufsha Kopelovitz, ?-1941<br \/>\nYankel Kopelovitz, ?-1941<br \/>\nBenzion Dorogoi, 1857-1941<br \/>\nEnta Vainer Dorogoi, 1864-1941<br \/>\nChaya Leah Dorogoi Jucha, 1891-1941<br \/>\nMordechai Leib Jucha, 1886-1941<br \/>\nSymcha David Jucha, 1924-1941<br \/>\nDavid Dorogoi, 1901-1941<br \/>\nRajzia Dorogoi, 1905-1941<br \/>\nBaruch Dorogoi, 1907-1941<br \/>\nYentke Dorogoi, 1935-1941<br \/>\nMikhail Dorogoi, 1936-1941<\/p>\n<p>Killed in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jewishgen.org\/yizkor\/kobrin1\/kob378.html\">Kobryn, Belarus<\/a> (read &#8220;From an Eyewitness&#8221;):<br \/>\nmy great-great grandfather, Yitzak Leder 1862-1941<br \/>\nhis second wife, Sarah Feignbaum Leder<br \/>\nhis children (from both his marriages):<br \/>\nVelvel Leder<br \/>\nChaya Leder<br \/>\nLeah Leder<br \/>\nMiriam Leder<br \/>\nPinchas Leader<\/p>\n<p>Killed in a camp after being sent from Suwalki to <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Bia%C5%82a_Podlaska\">Biala Podlaska<\/a><br \/>\nMy great-great grandfather, Chaim Brennholz, 1864-194?<br \/>\nYaacob Brenholc, who was the coach of the Maccabee&#8217;s soccer team in Suwalki, Poland, perished in the Holocaust, but we don&#8217;t know where or when.<\/p>\n<p>I know I will uncover more names on my family tree, more dead ends. I worry about the day that no one remembers those who were killed, when the survivors are all gone, and the Holocaust is merely an entry in a history book.  We need to remember them all&#8211;those who were strong and fought (these <a href=\"http:\/\/popchassid.com\/photos-holocaust-narrative\/\">photos<\/a> are particularly moving) and those who were strong and lost. My family.<\/p>\n<p>We must remember. Never again.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>People who know me outside of this blog know that I&#8217;m obsessed&#8211;and obsessed is an understatement here&#8211;with genealogy. I&#8217;ve let it take over a huge portion of my life, as I&#8217;m able to chalk it up to &#8220;research.&#8221; As someone who is interested in writing about different periods of time, I&#8217;m using what I find [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[87,116,9],"class_list":["post-2270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-family","tag-genealogy","tag-jewish"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2270"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2270\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}