{"id":1186,"date":"2003-01-08T08:10:00","date_gmt":"2003-01-08T08:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2003\/01\/reality-bites.html"},"modified":"2003-01-08T08:10:00","modified_gmt":"2003-01-08T08:10:00","slug":"reality-bites","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2003\/01\/reality-bites.html","title":{"rendered":"Reality Bites"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Reality junkies like me live to see how low the networks will sink next.  I just watched the first episode of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.fox.com\/joem\/\"><i>Joe Millionaire<\/i><\/a>, which most of the TV watching world knows is a series about an average Joe construction worker, earning $19,000 a year, pretending to have inherited $50 million dollars as twenty women compete for his affections. In the last episode, he&#8217;ll reveal that he&#8217;s truly just a regular guy, barely making ends meet to see if the woman is really a gold digger or if she likes him for himself. I won&#8217;t even go into the blatantly obvious flaws with the whole premise of this show, but I will be watching all the way through, if for no other reason than it&#8217;s fun to watch the women cry when they don&#8217;t get picked (does that seem cruel? Well, what did they expect going on a show to compete for their dream millionaire husband). All these women talked about how excited they are to get to be with a rich guy and how they all want to be provided for.  I&#8217;m sure many women <i>and<\/i> men would love to be provided for, but they don&#8217;t blabber about it on national TV, getting starry eyed as they excitedly talk about money.  No fewer than eight women made comments involving the words &#8220;fairy tale&#8221; or &#8220;princess,&#8221; as in &#8220;I&#8217;m a princess and this is the life I deserved&#8221; (an almost exact quote).<\/p>\n<p>But <i>Joe Millionaire<\/i> wasn&#8217;t the point of this. The point was the furor being raised over <a href=\"http:\/\/yahoo.eonline.com\/News\/Items\/0,1,10453,00.html?yhnws\"><i>The Real Beverly Hillbillies<\/i><\/a>, a series CBS would like to produce in which they take a true family from the Appalachians and plop them in Beverly Hills a la the old sit com. (Hey, does this sound like <a href=\"http:\/\/www.pbs.org\/wnet\/frontierhouse\/\"><i>Frontier House<\/i><\/a> in reverse to anyone else?)  As the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ruralstrategies.org\/?yhnws\">biggest opponent<\/a> says, &#8220;The joke is that this family won\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t know how to live with money, servants, modern appliances, prepared food, and other conveniences of 21st century life&#8230; CBS\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s show will ridicule and mock people based on stereotypes and economic status.&#8221; Valid points. I actually think this does cross a line because it takes advantage of those who may not know what they&#8217;re getting into. (I&#8217;m judging this on the book that we&#8217;re actually discussing in book group tonight, Rick Bragg&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/ASIN\/0679774025\/jennyspage-20\"><i>All Over but the Shoutin&#8217;<\/i><\/a>, which I wouldn&#8217;t necessarily recommend, but apparently I&#8217;m the only one who wouldn&#8217;t.) Anyone in this day and age who chooses to go on <a href=\"http:\/\/abc.abcnews.go.com\/primetime\/specials\/bachelor\/index.html\"><i>The Bachelor<\/i><\/a> or, starting next week, <a href=\"http:\/\/abc.abcnews.go.com\/primetime\/bachelorette\/index.html\"><i>The Bachelorette<\/i><\/a> or <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mtv.com\/onair\/realworld\/\"><i>The Real World<\/i><\/a> or whatever knows exactly what they&#8217;re getting into. If they get the family they really want, odds are they&#8217;re not spending luxurious evenings sitting around a television, getting their fill of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cbs.com\/primetime\/survivor4\/\"><i>Survivor<\/i><\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.popmatters.com\/tv\/reviews\/w\/who-wants-to-marry-a-millionaire.html\"><i>Who Wants to Marry a Multimillionaire<\/i><\/a>. This is out and out mockery.  But should we expect more from the same networks that are bringing us <a ref=\"http:\/\/www.thewilltv.com\/\"><i>The Will<\/i><\/a> (families fighting for the family fortune)? (By the way, check out ABC&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/abc.abcnews.go.com\/site\/casting.html\">casting page<\/a> to find all the reality shows they&#8217;re looking to fill: want plastic surgery? to try on a new family? prove you&#8217;re the All American Girl? This is the place.)<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you know this all just makes me one big fat hypocrite. Because if they <i>do<\/i> get this show on the air, you know I&#8217;m going to be the first one to set up the Replay to make sure I get every episode.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reality junkies like me live to see how low the networks will sink next. I just watched the first episode of Joe Millionaire, which most of the TV watching world knows is a series about an average Joe construction worker, earning $19,000 a year, pretending to have inherited $50 million dollars as twenty women compete [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1186","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1186","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1186"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1186\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1186"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1186"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1186"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}