{"id":1064,"date":"2003-06-17T08:09:00","date_gmt":"2003-06-17T08:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2003\/06\/im-getting-soft.html"},"modified":"2003-06-17T08:09:00","modified_gmt":"2003-06-17T08:09:00","slug":"im-getting-soft","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/2003\/06\/im-getting-soft.html","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Getting Soft"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Or maybe it&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m getting tired. When I got a phone call from a workman yesterday and he asked for Mrs. Medros, instead of my usual, &#8220;This is Adam&#8217;s wife, Jenny Brown. What can I do for you?&#8221; (and yes, I use the word wife there, because it&#8217;s simpler than not&#8211;another way I&#8217;m going soft), I simply said, &#8220;Yes.&#8221; And today when one of the workman asked if I was having a boy or a girl and I said, &#8220;boy,&#8221; and he said, &#8220;You&#8217;re lucky. You won&#8217;t need to repaint the room&#8221; (Adam&#8217;s office was and the future nursery is a light blue), I didn&#8217;t launch into my long speech about how the room was painted blue with the assumption that we were having a girl and that I refuse to give into gender stereotypes and the only reason the room will remain blue is I don&#8217;t have the heart to ask Adam to repaint it; I merely said, &#8220;Yeah, you&#8217;re right.&#8221; Repeat after me: the world does not have to be my battlefield. The world does not have to be my battlefield.<\/p>\n<p>Is it nap time yet?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Or maybe it&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m getting tired. When I got a phone call from a workman yesterday and he asked for Mrs. Medros, instead of my usual, &#8220;This is Adam&#8217;s wife, Jenny Brown. What can I do for you?&#8221; (and yes, I use the word wife there, because it&#8217;s simpler than not&#8211;another way I&#8217;m [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1064"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1064\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.jennyandadam.com\/Jenny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}