the pieces of my life

Doodles goes to a Jewish preschool. For the past few weeks, each child has been working on a Shabbat book. Doodles is extremely proud of his book and he explained what each page was. Here is the artist’s statement about this picture: “This is a picture of Jason Varitek because I wish he could come to Shabbat but he can’t because we don’t know him.” Jason Varitek, if you ever stumble across my blog, please consider yourself formally invited to Shabbat at our house.

I love my daughter to death. I know that there’s nothing in this world she can’t do. But, but, but… Right now she spends all her time, with a notebook and “pencil” (read: pens) in hand, scribbling. All day. All over the place. “I want to draw!” she says and she creates these pages of scribble. “How do you spell your name?” she asks me, Adam, and Doodles, and then she scribbles. “What do you want for lunch?” she asks, taking our order and then she scribbles. She’s left-handed, so she has that odd writing hunch as she scribbles. She can sit for a good hour scribbling. She fills notebooks up with these tiny little scribbles. Today we call her Pie. Tomorrow we’ll call her Unabomber. Be afraid. Be very afraid.

I cut my finger last week. Not a big deal. A little bloody, but minor. But the thing is it’s on my thumb and as such I keep hitting it and it’s not getting better, so I’ve been putting Neosporin on it and stuck a Band-Aid on. Which is kind of like pasting a flashing neon sign on myself that says, “Please, ask me about my cut. Again. And again. And again. And again…”

Pie: What’s that?
Me: I cut myself.
Pie: How?
Me: With a knife.
Pie: Why?
Me: Because I was careless.
Pie: So you cut yourself?
Me: Yes.
Pie: With a knife?
Me: Yes.
Pie: Why do you have a Band-Aid? [Repeat ad nauseam]

And then, the coup de grace: On Sunday morning, I got up early and without thinking I grabbed a Band-Aid and stuck it on. It wasn’t until it was out of the paper that I realized my error: I had grabbed a Sponge Bob Band-Aid.

Pie: What’s that?
Me: A Band-Aid.
Doodles: Is that a Sponge Bob Band-Aid???
Me: Yes.
Doodles: Why do you have a Sponge Bob Band-Aid?
Me: I took it by mistake.
Doodles: I LOVE Sponge Bob!
Me: What do you possibly know of Sponge Bob? You’re not allowed to watch it.
Doodles: I LOVE Sponge Bob. Can I have a Band-Aid?
Me: No.
Pie: Can I have a Band-Aid?
Me: No.
Doodles and Pie: I WANT A BAND-AID!

Luckily I was running a half marathon that morning so I only had to deal with the Band-Aid bandits’ demands for a mere three hours before being dropped off in Hampton, New Hampshire. I met up with my friends from my boot camp class, although I knew I wasn’t as prepared for the race as they were, so I chose not to run with them and ran with a friend from my Saturday running group who assured me she’d be going slowly but still beat me by a good minute (Hi A.M.! Good run!). The race itself was pretty good–not too hilly, nice scenery, lots of the run was on the coast–but the weather wasn’t great. Started off chilly, but nice, in the lower 30s. By about mile 8 the rain started. By mile 9 it turned into a heavy snow that kept flying into my eyes. By the end, I was jonesing for both the soup and beer waiting for me. But I did much better than I had thought I would–I ran it in 1:54:34–although I was sore for a good two days after.

Anyway, after the race Adam and the kids and my in-laws met up with me, and we all went out for a nice lunch at the Old Salt. Doodles has made HUGE strides in his feeding group, and he will now eat a fish stick or two, which means our dining options have grown. So we went for lunch where I smell (no showers after the run), Doodles is eating fish sticks, and Pie is trying to choke herself with my medal. Halfway through the meal, I look down and comment to Adam, “Um, my Band-Aid is gone and I have no idea where it is.” But the highlight was when Doodles hopped up from his seat and proclaimed loudly enough for the next five tables to hear: “I need to poop!”

Adam quickly shuffles him toward the bathroom, and I can hear him calling loudly, “I have poop inside me! I also have–“

Adam quickly cut him off with “We can talk about it when we get in the bathroom.”

So of course, in the bathroom, Doodles completes that thought: “I also have sperm inside me.”

(Note, I’ve tried explaining to him that, no, he doesn’t have sperm in him yet, but that conversation has gone nowhere fast.)

So now I’m sore. Doodles has sperm. And, for the record, Adam found my Band-Aid. In the wash.

And no. You can’t have a Band-Aid, either.